Is your marriage coasting? It’s not bad, and no pain points come to mind, but also no real investment is being made. Or maybe only the investments that you’ve grown accustomed and comfortable with making?
You’re not hurting, but you’re not having fun like you used to. Maybe your relationship feels a bit lifeless or stale. If that’s you, we can help!
The Marriage Refresher Challenge is designed specifically for you. Dr. Kim’s vast experience as a Christian Marriage Counselor indicates that investing intentionally in 5 key areas will have a huge impact on your marriage. What if you took 5 weeks and did 5 things each week to refresh your marriage?
Here’s what you’ll do with this challenge.
Let’s look at communication. Sometimes our conversations become more of a checklist than an invitation to know one another more deeply. When was the last time your spouse heard from you? Not your daily checklist. Not a honey-do list, but heard from your heart? Heard about your goals, a struggle you’re facing, or an area of life you feel derailed in.
How are your finances? Are you on track with spending? Has one spouse taken the reins on this, leaving the other person seemingly out of the loop? Do you both have equal say in where your money is going? Do you show you value your marriage in the way you spend your money?
Are the two of you feeling disconnected? Is there an unspoken divide in your home? Have you found yourself looking to other people or places to meet the need of connection?
What’s your prayer life like? Is your prayer time together a priority? Is it nonexistent? Praying together can be intimidating. We get it! However, it’s the single best thing you can do for your marriage. It builds intimacy, encourages vulnerability, and allows for transparency in your marriage, all while deepening your relationship and keeping Christ at the center.
What about intimacy? We hear from couples often that the intimacy in their marriage has gone stale. While we know physical intimacy isn’t the only kind of intimacy a couple should share, we also know that physical intimacy is a good indicator of the quality of the connection a couple shares! When’s the last time the two of you embraced one another? Sacrificed time on your device for face to face time with your spouse? Has physical contact taken the place of physical intimacy?
To refresh your marriage, do 1 thing for each of these 5 important areas over the next 5 weeks:
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Communication
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Intimacy
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Connection
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Prayer
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Finances
Are you ready to rejuvenate your marriage? In order to take the challenge simply sign up here. You’ll get a weekly email for 5 weeks with your Weekly Marriage Refresher tasks.