Why is it so important to slow down in a new relationship? These relationships often end poorly. Watch the video to learn more.
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Why is it so important to slow down in a new relationship? When you move too fast, the relationship often crashes and burns or ends poorly. Some people rush the relationship because they’re so excited to have finally made a good connection. Others push for a faster pace, because they are highly manipulative and create a false reality they can’t sustain. This is what we call love bombing. Whether you tend to get attached too quickly or you’ve been the victim of love bombing, here’s how to slow things down so you’re comfortable with the pace of the relationship.
5 Signs The Relationship is Moving Too Fast
- You’re always together
- Sex is the biggest priority
- You’re planning the future before there’s a present
- You’re constantly in contact when you’re apart
- You’ve stopped prioritizing your needs
4 Tips to Slow Down
- Talk about slowing down the pace
- Take time for yourself
- Learn to say no to requests that don’t work for you
- Set boundaries around constant communication
Often, just having direct and clear conversations about your needs will be enough to put the relationship on a healthier track. However, if your partner doesn’t respect your request to slow things down, that’s a big red flag and it’s probably time to walk away.
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